DON’T Do This! 7 Things To Take Note Of While Planning A Baby Shower

It is not easy planning a baby shower for sure. Also, no party is going to be perfect. However, here are some things that are a big no-no. If you want to make the baby shower a success, make sure you steer clear of the things in your planning!

1. Not allowing people to say “baby” ❌💬👶

One of the most annoying games at baby showers is the game where nobody is allowed to say the word ‘baby’. What is the point of inviting people to a baby shower when they get punished for talking about the reason they were invited? It’s like throwing a birthday party and not allowing others to wish you a happy birthday!

While this may be a fun idea, we think it might turn out frustrating instead. Just let your guests relax and talk about what they want!

2. Uncomfortable baby games 🍼

On the topic of games, there are certain things we don’t think you should be making fellow adults do. Putting mushy baby food or chocolate into diapers and making the guests guess what they are is not just gross, it will make them lose their appetite. Unless your intention is to save on the snacks, this is probably not the best game to have.

Another game is getting guests to chug drinks from milk bottles as quickly as they can. Come on, they are not babies anymore… There are many other fun games out there that guests will be more comfortable with! Alternatively, making the games optional so not all are forced to participate would be a good idea. As such, you can proceed with the games you prefer, but only willing and enthusiastic guests will take part!

3.  Keep making Mummy do things 🤰

If the baby shower is held before the baby’s birth, Mummy would probably be better off sitting down and resting. Even if the baby shower is held after the baby is born, Mummy could still be recovering and can get easily tired. As such, don’t keep making her do all kinds of activities!

For some mothers, they may not enjoy the excessive attention either. Allowing her to spectate at the side while her loved ones participate in games or come over to the table to speak to her would be better. Allow her to relax at a corner and join in when she feels up to it!

4. Open gifts in front of the guests 🎁

When one opens all their gifts, it is inevitable that their gifts will be compared. It wouldn’t be very nice if your gift was judged by others, since all presents were given with heartfelt sincerity.

Also, if there are too many guests, the entire ceremony will feel draggy, and the parents have to keep up with the enthusiastic reactions so as not to hurt the guests’ feelings. In short, this is an activity that gets tiring for everyone involved. Perhaps opening the gifts with only the close family would be a nicer option.

5. Make Baby present throughout the baby shower 👶

This is only applicable if the baby shower is held after the baby is born. You should set a time for baby to be there, so guests can see the star of the party; but remember that the little one needs their beauty sleep too! When baby’s nap time arrives, they have to go. Better to have a well-rested baby who will then comply with photo-taking and guests’ cuddling, than a frustrated, crying baby ruining the mood of the party.

6. Invite way too many guests 🪑

The more the merrier? Not really. Consider the amount of people to take care of and talk to, and how much sleep the parents have been getting with their newborn around. This also means more logistics in terms of seats, food and party favours.

Even for the guests, they could worry about their gifts overlapping with others’ gifts! Keeping the baby shower to a small number would be less stressful on all.

7. Drag the party on ⏲️

Some people may have other things to attend to after the baby shower, but feel awkward if they leave first. To avoid such situations, you could have all the activities done first (such as cake-cutting or balloon-popping) before serving snacks and refreshments and allowing guests to mingle. Thus, those who need to leave can go whenever they want.

However, don’t forget that the parents need their rest too. Having a fixed end time relieves the pressure not just on guests but also on the family, as they don’t have to entertain the guests for a prolonged period of time. Keep the party just like the baby – short and sweet~